Kamis, 01 Agustus 2013

Husband, Help for the House Bond

HUSBAND
House band
Under a lot of stress
Supposed to be a lot of things
Because he loves wife and family
Always to be depended upon
Not permitted to be down or domineering
Daddy, encourager, and provider.
These are just some of the roles
Some of the emotions
That go with being a husband and dad
Feelings glad, sad, and mad
He-motions often not communicated
Not desirous nor even welcomed
Nevertheless such thoughts occur
Hurt, wound, and sour
The loving marital relationship
The ability for dad to nourish and equip
His kids to succeed in this dog-eat-dog world
Sometimes even dad feels devoured
Done in by life's circumstances
Chances that did not materialize
Into personal and professional advances
Nevertheless he continues to believe
Move by faith and take chances
To advance himself and his family
To be all he can fully be
To do all he can in his power do
To say to his family, "I love you."
Sadly however many times
The house bond comes up empty handed
Complaining and ingrateful wife and kids
Demoralize him, taking from him his will to live
Of course their effect on him is often unknown
Because bid daddy endures a lot
And rarely is it visible or outwardly shown.
Therefore here is an encouraging poem
To uplift and help the house bond
The happy and unhappy husband
To salute the dad who endures a lot
And in his own life, feels like he's not got
Nevertheless he gives and gives some more
Hoping one day that God above will open the door
Enabling him to enter and fulfill his own dreams
Often are there times when Dad too wants to scream
Yet he presses on and tries not to be mean
To exemplify love and leadership
Endear his wife and not demean
She to whom he said, "I do" to
Lest she degrade and hurt him too
For Mom undoubtedly has her own struggles
And she needs lots of affection and snuggles
As for Dad he is pulled on often
To provide this, that, and the other
Certainly there are times he feels smothered
If he works at home interruptions can bother
Yet intrusions don't register when you need your father
Kids rush in to speak to dear old dad day and night
After all father knows best and can make all wrongs right
The pressures of life surely if one's not careful
Could drive Dad out of sight
Because even the house bond
Has his own fight
To stay mentally sane
In an insane world
To be a man of integrity
And uphold his word
Children hold you to promises
As do many demanding wives
Some even maneuver and manipulate
To get hubby to revolve around their lives.
Be encouraged man of God
Heaven sees and does realize
Your labor of love is tough
Never to be despised
Stay the course
Don't divorce
Don't abandon ship
Don't be disheartened
By a rebellious kids
Who make you livid.
Whenever you feel angry and alone
Know for sure you've got a home
In heaven up above
Where resides the Father of love
Who feels and cares deeply
About and for all you think of
Therefore find a friend in the Father
The Father of fathers can nurture
Who always understands
Never does ridicule or reject
On the contrary, He does wholeheartedly
Protect, comfort, encourage, and empower
Every wear man any day or hour
When called upon He is near
Every prayer you utter He does hear
As you seek Him, He will draw near
Slap success on and bless your year
Delight in you and call you dear
Do away with what you've been going through
Embrace, hug, undergird, and uplift you
Nourishing and nullifying negativity
Replacing anxiety with peaceful tranquility
Removing hardness of heart and rigidity
Loving and laughing with you
On your personal journey to liberty
The pursuit of happiness in your life
Take time for yourself away from strife
Let not others words cut you like a knife
Reposition your focus and perception
Discern demonic influences
Distinguish and wisely make a separation
From people and their outside influences
Pray fervently and overcome circumstances
Break forth into joy, turning sorrow into dance
Consider time with God a divine romance
You're going to make it husband
Don't leave destiny up to chance
It's a matter of choice. Therefore rejoice
For a new day has dawned
Newness of life has spawned
Super Dad is going to bounce back
No more will your soul suffer lack
Though you had been secretly under attack
And you have been catching flak
Your heart the enemy had thought to hijack
You however are going to fly higher
And mount up with wings like an eagle
Adjust inner attitudes and be regal
Relatable but not deflatable
Empowering but not disempowered
Sympathetic but not pathetic
Resourceful but not prideful
Patient but not a pushover
Persevering but not impetuous
Generous but not delirious
Balanced but not bamboozled
You're going to gain insight and revelation
Transcend, ascend, and make amends
Even sometimes father your kids friends
Embracing and endearing them
Connecting, communicating, and correcting
Assuring and facilitating learning
Loving, living, and laughing
Ecstatically celebrating
Each and every moment of the day
For father you set the temperature
Your pulse and passion paves the way
Therefore be courageous and say
That which is necessary and prudent
House bond be bold and not hesitant.
Therefore impart your heart
Deposit your discipline and ideals
Instruct with examples, chores, and drills
Expect reactions to be far from thrills
Yet know once they reach adulthood
Your kids will return to see Dad and chill
To hug, kiss, and reminisce
Therefore lead your family with all diligence
For this is your legacy and brilliance
Eerily it often feels like evanescence
The loss of your own precious life
Yet the more of it you give away
The more will come back to stay.
Paul Davis is a FL real estate professional, life coach (relational & professional), worldwide minister, and change master.
Paul is the author of several books including Breakthrough for a Broken Heart; Adultery: 101 Reasons Not to Cheat; Are You Ready for True Love; Stop Lusting & Start Living; Waves of God; Supernatural Fire; Poems that Propel the Planet; and God vs. Religion.
Paul's compassion for people & passion to travel has taken him to over 50 countries of the world where he has had a tremendous impact. Paul has served in many war-torn, impoverished and tsunami stricken regions of the earth. His Dream-Maker Inc. is building dreams, breaking limitations & reviving nations.
Paul's Breakthrough Seminars inspire, revive, awaken, impregnate with purpose, impart the fire of desire, catapult people into a new level of self-awareness, facilitate destiny discovery and dream fulfillment.

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